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Key Takeaways
Cleaning sex toys regularly prevents infections and extends their lifespan.
Different materials require different cleaning methods—know what yours needs.
Storage matters! Keep toys dry, dust-free, and properly separated.
When in doubt, toss it out—better safe than sorry.
Let’s Talk Dirty—And How to Keep It Clean
Look, we know: cleaning your sex toys isn’t the most glamorous part of your intimate adventures. But if you want to keep things fun and infection-free, a little elbow grease (not literally) goes a long way.
Proper sex toy maintenance prevents bacterial buildup, infections, and, let’s be honest, some seriously awkward doctor visits. So, whether you're new to the pleasure game or a seasoned pro, this guide will walk you through everything from antibacterial toy cleaner to knowing when it's time to retire your beloved bedside buddy.
The Gross Truth: Why Cleaning Your Sex Toys Matters
Sex toys get up close and personal with the most sensitive areas of your body. And if you’re not cleaning them properly? Well, let’s just say bacteria, fungi, and even STIs would love to move in rent-free. Some of the biggest risks include:
Bacterial infections – Dirty toys can introduce bacteria, leading to UTIs and BV. Sexy? Not so much.
Fungal infections – Candida thrives on warm, moist surfaces. Enough said.
STIs – Sharing sex toys without proper cleaning? That’s an express ticket to Infectionville.
Material degradation – Some toy materials (looking at you, jelly and TPE) break down over time, trapping bacteria even with regular cleaning. Yikes.
Moral of the story? Cleaning isn’t optional. It’s essential.
The Golden Rules of Sex Toy Hygiene
Before we get into the nitty-gritty of disinfecting anal toys and cleaning motorized sex toys, here are the universal commandments:
Wash before and after every use – Yes, even if you just used it last night.
Use mild, fragrance-free soap – Harsh chemicals can irritate your skin and damage your toys.
Follow the manufacturer’s instructions – That little booklet isn’t just for decoration.
Dry thoroughly before storing – Moisture is bacteria’s BFF. Don’t invite them to the party.
Store properly – Tossing your toys in a drawer isn’t enough. More on that later.
How to Clean Sex Toys by Material
Silicone Sex Toys (The MVPs)
Silicone is non-porous, meaning it won’t trap bacteria. A solid, body-safe choice.
How to Clean:
- Wash with warm water and mild soap.
- Boil (if non-motorized) for 3-5 minutes for deep cleaning.
- For motorized silicone toys, wipe with a damp, soapy cloth and avoid soaking.
Avoid: Silicone-based lubricants. They break down the material over time.
Glass, Stainless Steel & ABS Plastic Toys (Easy-Clean Champs)
These non-porous materials are smooth, sleek, and simple to clean.
How to Clean:
- Wash with warm water and mild soap.
- Boil (if non-motorized) or toss them in the dishwasher (top rack, no detergent).
- Wipe down with isopropyl alcohol for extra sanitation.
Avoid: Dropping glass toys. No explanation needed.
Jelly, TPE, and TPR Toys (High-Maintenance & Porous)
These materials are soft and squishy, but their porous nature means bacteria love them. Pro Tip: If you must share, use a condom over it.
How to Clean:
- Wash with mild soap and warm water.
- Use an antibacterial toy cleaner for extra protection.
- Store separately and replace more frequently.
Avoid: Boiling or using alcohol-based cleaners—they’ll degrade the material fast.
Motorized or Battery-Operated Toys (Delicate Divas)
Wires and water? Not a match made in heaven.
How to Clean:
- Wipe with a damp, soapy washcloth.
- Use disinfecting toy wipes for quick clean-ups.
- Be careful around charging ports or battery compartments.
Avoid: Full submersion unless the manufacturer says it’s waterproof.
Anal Sex Toys (Extra Precaution Needed)
Since these toys come into direct contact with bacteria, they need thorough cleaning.
How to Clean:
- Wash immediately with warm water and antibacterial soap.
- Use a disinfecting toy cleaner.
- Boil for 5 minutes if non-motorized and non-porous.
Avoid: Using the same toy for vaginal and anal play without a thorough cleaning (or a condom swap).
Sharing Sex Toys: The Do’s and Don’ts
Thinking of sharing? Play it safe:
- Use a new condom over the toy before sharing.
- Opt for non-porous materials that can be sanitized completely.
- Clean thoroughly between users.
- Never share porous toys without a barrier.
Storing Your Cleaned Sex Toys
Proper storage isn’t just about keeping things organized—it prevents dust, bacteria, and damage.
Use individual cloth or silicone bags.
Store in a cool, dry place away from sunlight.
Keep different materials separated to prevent chemical reactions.
When to Say Goodbye: Signs You Need a New Toy
Even the best-loved toys don’t last forever. Time to part ways if:
The surface feels sticky or tacky (material breakdown).
There are cracks or tears (hello, bacteria breeding ground).
It has a persistent funky odor.
The battery or motor isn’t working (RIP, old friend).
Clean Toys, Happy You: The Key to Long-Lasting Pleasure
Your sex toys work hard—so give them the spa day they deserve! Taking the time to properly clean and store your pleasure products isn't just good hygiene, it’s a love letter to your future self (and whoever else is involved). A well-maintained toy stays fresh, functional, and always ready for action.
By following these expert-backed cleaning and storage tips, you’ll keep your collection in top shape while minimizing health risks. Because nothing kills the mood faster than an unexpected infection.
So, keep it clean, keep it fun, and keep the good times rolling! And if you’re looking for a lube that plays as well as you do, check out Popstar Personal Lubricants —because nothing should come between you and pleasure (except, you know, proper hygiene).
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I use regular soap to clean my sex toys?
Yes, as long as it’s mild and fragrance-free. Harsh soaps can cause irritation.
How often should I clean my sex toys?
Before and after every use. No exceptions.
Can I share sex toys?
Only if you sanitize them properly and/or use a condom over them.
Do I really need a special toy cleaner?
Not always, but an antibacterial toy cleaner can be helpful for quick sanitation.
What’s the best way to clean anal sex toys?
Use warm water, antibacterial soap, and a disinfecting cleaner. If non-motorized, boil them.
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